xoxo Gossip Girl

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

 

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

 

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

 

We don't care if a guy calls OR TEXTS you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

 

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.

 

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

 

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

 

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

 

Yeah, you can quote me.

 

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.

 

Let us pay for you!

Don’t "feel bad"

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

 

Smile and say "thank you."

 

Kiss us when no one's watching.

 

If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

 

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

 

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to

wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

 

We like you for who you are and not what you are.

honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my

shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

 

Don't take everything we say seriously.

 

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

 

Don't get angry easily.

 

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

 

"Don't talk about how hott Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us".

It's boring, and we don't care. You have friends for that.

 

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"?

 

I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me

with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand I’m not saying I wouldn't like it ether

 

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. ditch his sorry ASS, he's a disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

 

Someone who will honor your morals.

 

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

 

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

 

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

 

Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and actually mean it.

 

Give the nice guys a chance.

 

Guys repost this if you agree

 

Girls repost this if you think it's cute

 

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this

 

*Holding Hands

Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of

times.

Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

 

*Cuddling

Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold

Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

 

*Movies

Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder

Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

 

*Loving each other

Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her

too... And mean it.

 

*Laying below the stars

Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat

Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.

 

1ST SCENE

boy and girl magkatabi sa 1 upuan

boy inakbayan si girl.

girl tumingin k boy.

boy hinawakan mukha ni girl.

boy: i miss u!

sabay inayos buhok ni girl.

girl speechless.

 

2ND SCENE

boy hinigit si girl

boy: bat ba ayaw mo q ihug?

girl sabay hug.

boy hinug ng mahigpit si girl.

 

3RD SCENE

habang naglalakad sa may pool.

girl nasira sandals.

girl: ikuha mo q tsinelas hnd aq makakalakad

boy: babahin n lng kita. kunwari naglalaro lang tau.

 

simple gestures of a boy but oh so sweet. :)

SEMBREAK..

a break from:

(+) study. waking up early. eating at school canteens. jeepney rides. boring professors. stressful requirements.

(-) seeing my girlfriends and abcom. ALLOWANCE. ALLOWANCE. ALLOWANCE.

i don't know if i will love/hate sembreak.

i don't have money. money. money.

all my savings were gone, gone with the wind.

this is the first time that my savings got drained.

before, my savings were about 15K plus plus.

it started to deteriorate when i bought my phone last semester.

after that 'phone-buying' my savings were about 8K.

but. i don't know what happen. i just get a little amount of it every now and then, and now after buying a good-but-expensive dress for my friend's debut. my money were gone.

i want to cry. CRY.

i still have many events lined-up for this month:

19 - tin's debut.

20 - Aika's 3-month-old get together dinner. (jelo's niece)

22 - GFFs day!

23 - compcard giving / encoding (if ever)

27 - kel's bday... libre nmn jan! haha.

28 / 30 - lilz' day. malling at lipa. sleepover at alaminos.

i badly want money.

WHEN IT COMES TO NICKNAMES:

If Gloria, Suzanne, Katrina and Michelle go out for lunch, they will call each other Gloria, Suzanne, Katrina and Michelle. But if Bob, Tom, Bryan and Dave go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Bonehead, Booger, Dogman and Pooman.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO EATING OUT:

And when the check comes, Mike, Phil, John and Jack will each throw in P1,000.00 bills, even though it’s only for P150.00 None of them will have anything smaller, and none will actually admit they want change back. When the girls get their check, out come the pocket calculators.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO BATHROOMS:

A man has five items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel from hotel. The average number of items in the typical woman’s bathroom is 437. A man would not be able to identify most of them.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO HANDWRITING:

To their credit, men do not decorate their penmanship. They just chicken-scratch. Women use scented colored stationary and they dot their “i’s” with circles and hearts. Women use ridiculously large loops in their “p’s” and “g’s”. It is a royal pain to read a note from a woman. Even when she’s dumping you, she’ll put a smiley face at the end of the note.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO GROCERIES:

A woman makes a list of things she need and then goes out to the store and buys them. A man waits till the only items left in his fridge are half a slice of pizza and a Coke, then he goes grocery shopping. He buys everything that looks good. By the time a man reaches the checkout counter, his cart is packed tighter than the cart hold. Of course, this will not stop him from going to the 10-items-or-less lane.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO SHOES:

When preparing for work, a woman will put on a suit, and then slip a pair of comfortable shoes. She will carry her dress shoes in a plastic bag. When she gets to work, she will put on her dress shoes. Five minutes later, she will kick them off because her feer are under the desk. A man will wear the same pair of shoes all day.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO DRESSING UP:

A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, get the mail. A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO ARGUMENTS:

A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO CATS:

Women love cats. Men say they love cats, but when women aren’t looking, men kick cats.

 

WHEN IT COMES TO CLOTHES:

When a woman goes to her closet and says, “I don’t have anything to wear,” she really means “I don’t have anything new to wear.” When a man goes out to his closet and says, “I don’t have anything to wear,” he really means “I don’t have anything clean to wear.”

 

*Few women admit their age. Few men act theirs.

*Men want respect. Women want intimacy.

 

No man can live without his woman.

 

**A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

 

 

(this survey is from jean's post in friendster's bulletin)

 

You're stuck on an elevator with the person you've fallen the hardest for, what happens?

- K.I.S.S. :)

.

On average, what do you think you cry about the most?

- bec. of inarte :)

.

Are you good at hiding your feelings?

- i think so. :)

.

Are you afraid of falling in love?

- no. yes. :)

.

Can you braid hair?

- sort of. :)

.

Do you give out second chances easily?

- yes.

.

Favorite place to be?

- HIS place. :)

.

Do you hate being alone?

- no. :)

.

Do you hate the last guy/girl that textd you?

- haha! no. :)

.

Have you ever told someone you like them?

- yes. :)

.

Have you ever blocked someone on Friendster before?

- wah, mean. NO.

.

Are you waiting for anyone's call right now?

- no.

.

Do you carry an umbrella when it rains, or just put up your hood?

- i bring an umbrella but i don't use it (--just like what jean said)

.

Did you know that peeling a wrapper off of a bottle means your sexually frustrated?

- haha, whatever!

.

Name something you have in common with all of your siblings?

- parents!haha (--jean's answer also :) )

.

What color is your favorite hoodie?

- red :)

.

Do you have a cell-phone?

- yes.

.

Are you emotional?

- sometimes. :)

.

Name a song that makes you happy?

- "Hark the Herald Angel Sing..." it's xmas time! haha!

.

What is on your refrigerator door?

- memo.

.

If you could change something in your life right now, what would it be?

- secret.

.

Name something you have to do tomorrow?

- tuloy aral in pagbilao, quezon! excited! :)

.

Do you prefer regular or chocolate milk?

- anything. :)

.

Can you whistle?

- yes.

.

Are you in a relationship?

- feeling MARRIED. :)

.

When you're at home alone, do you still close the bathroom door?

- yes. :)

.

the last place you fell asleep?

- my room.

.

Do you have a best friend that is boy?

- yes.

.

What is your favorite romance movie?

- the notebook. :)

.

Your best friend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do?

- ahaha. idk. :)

.

If you woke up in one of the Saw movies, do you think you could survive?

- waaah? i don't think so. i'm DEAD.

.

Who's the last person you had a sleepover with?

- my brother. lol. :)

.

Do you know anyone with such a terribly annoying voice that you can't even stand?

- yes. :)

.

Do you think friends can be replaced?

- no. :)

.

Do you think you have made a difference in anyone's life?

- YES :)

.

Do you trust people easily?

- yes.

.

How exactly are you feeling?

- excited :).

.

Do you have a good relationship with your parents?

- yes.

.

Have you ever walked outside in the rain?

- yes :)

.

How old will you be in 3 months?

- 17. :)

.

What are you looking forward to?

- sembreak. :)

.

Last call?

- wala, haha!

.

Do you miss someone?

- YES.

 

 

read. between. the. lines.

for almost one month, there's one thing that's bothering my mind. "will i let go of you or not?"

and now, i already come up with a good decision.

having you is one of the best thing that happened in my life. really.

whenever i have problem in almost anything, you're there.

you're always beside me to give advice. to make me laugh with your oops moments. to make me 'kilig' with ur love stories in your mind. to give me advice on what clothes to wear. to inspire me with your experiences in life. to love me at my worst. to give the best in me.

but. for some reasons, we need to separate ways.

as we know, there's no such thing as FOREVER.

i don't know if i'm now physically and emotionally ready to finally let go of you.

but i think, this is the best thing to do.

i really do enjoy your company.

thanks for all the happy moments that we've shared.

i'll truly treasure our bonding moments.

after this night, i'll accept the fact that i will no longer have a new you in my life.

goodbye, candy magazine.

                                                my 66 issues of candy.

                    my very 1st issue of candy September 2001

 

                                          bye candy..  :'c

 

*this blog is inspired by yuki's blog (click if you want to see)*

 

are you a 3-letter word course student?

are you the one telling us, "mas masaya nga pag wala cla eh"

are you the one who silently talk about us inside the c.r (without noticing that 2 abcomm girls are beside u  )

or, you're the one who wrote vandals that says "hoy mga abcomm ang papangit nio, mga pilingera" inside one of the cubicles in the girl's room of C bldg.? --> this is soo high school, cheap..

if you're one of the person above, then you hate us..

why is it so?..

hmmmmmmmm... 

ABCOMMs are:

• nice
• dancers
• singers
• actors
• performers
• good-looking
• sexy
• naughty
• NOISY.. really
• lively
• loved by the professors and Dean Au,
• always the BIDA (but sometimes the EXTRA )
• royalties
• good speaker of the english language, really?
• and envied by YOU

well.. we don't blame you for hating us..

if i were you, i will also be jealous..

but honestly... we don't care.. oops, i mean.. we CARE..

WHY?

because it only shows that we're the BEST...

agree?

 

One evening (Aug. 20, 2008 to be exact), GIRL went to BOY’s house because there’s a family gathering there (GIRL and BOY are lovers). GIRL had a good time inside BOY’s house. The BOY realized that it was getting late, and the GIRL decided to go home. While walking, BOY’s neighbors saw both of them. Here’s the scenario:

NEIGHBORS: “oh (BOY’s name) cno yan?” “hindi ata yan ang kasama mo nung isang gabi ah *laugh*” “oh bat iba na naman kasama mo” *and they laugh. Laugh. Laugh*

BOY grab the GIRL and they both went on the other side of the street.

(Actually, GIRL was used to that kind of irritating comments, because they’ve been telling comments like that whenever NEIGHBORS saw the GIRL and BOY in their place.)

NEIGHBORS: “(BOY’s name) baka makita yan ni ano? Sino nga ba yun?” “c *toot* (BOY’S ex who lives somewhere in their place) *laugh*”

(take note: eversince, GIRL was getting irritated whenever she hears the name of *toot*… but for some reasons, GIRL and *toot* became friends.. Only these two girls know why and how they’ve become friends.)

Back to the story…

BOY: tanga! Past is past.

GIRL: *smiling fake smile.. pretending that she’s not affected*

NEIGHBORS AGAIN: “oh c *toot* ayan” *laugh*

They keep saying *toot* *toot*

GIRL: *screaming WHATEVER in her mind*

BOY: *silent mode… notices that GIRL got offended*

After that incident, GIRL and BOY took a ride in the tricycle…

GIRL: *silent* *was really hurt inside*

BOY: *hug the GIRL* “tama na…. asau na q…”

GIRL: *pretending that everything’s ok, hugged back*

When GIRL got home, she really felt insulted and she was alone in her room (reading theo’s handouts) with a teary eyes…

 

 

remember the feeling of excitement when you have new pictures and you want to download it right away on your site?

last aug 1 (after our SUCCESSFUL general assembly) i went home with an excitement on my face to upload our new pictures in my site.

the moment I dial on the network, a dialog box suddenly appeared with the message, "error ............ the modem is not connected"

i tried for about 10 times redialling and nothing happened.

i called my uncle and he gave me some instructions to do then he told me that our modem was not functioning well..

i was like, "mom! what happened here??"

my mother answered me with a puzzle look, "ur the only one using the pc" 

and at the back of my mind i was screaming, "GET THIS FREAKING COMPUTER OUT OF MY FACE!"

i was really annoyed with the situation.. and i cant do anything because i don't know anything about computers, duh? I'm an ab communication student..

not to mention my co-maid moubee (love u moubs) who was rushing me to upload our pix..

anyway, my uncle lend me his modem and fortunately, it works..

thanks god.. i have my connection again...

*sigh*

As what the saying goes, "madaling maging tao, mahirap magpakatao."

That's true.

Before, i thought, to become a HUMAN, you must be good to others and do good things.

But, it's only now that i realized that being HUMAN is....

to have a well developed MULTIPLY account..

Now, i can say that i'm a MAN, i now have a MULTIPLY account (tnx to abcomm!)..

And im sure, in a couple of days, i will soon become HUMAN..

Be ready royalties, Gem is now officially transforming... 

*May 2, 2o08* *Friday* *Lipa, Batangas*

*3na, 3xie, kel and I*

what a day!!!

that was one of our bonding moments since we graduated in high school..

we went at robinsons, sm, and la salle..

grabe! nun pauwi n kme...

we took a bus dat is heading 2 cubao..

eh un route nun bus na un iba sa cnskyan nila 3na dati..

wen we realized dat we were going on the wrong track..

nagpanic na kme ni xie.. haha!

den we asked a lady named, "charing" if dadaan ba un bus sa tanauan..

the other lady said dat it is not.. 

but aling charing asked the conductor, and the conductor said na sa kabila ang daan..

den i said, also 3xie.. we said dat we need to go down..

but the condoctur said dat, may madadaanan nmn kme n papunta sto tomas...

grabe! nkakahiya dun sa bus. pra kaming mga "tanga!" wahahaha!

den nun nkababa na kame..

we took a jip going to sto tomas batangas.. 

3xie asked d driver how much will it cost kung alaminos xa bababa..

wahahah! d driver said, "hanggang sto tomas lang 2!"

hahaha! tinginan mga pasahero..

den nun bumaba kame, ska kame sumkay ng san pablo..

and viola! asa bhay na kame!

hahah!

Summer.. Summer..

omg! im really bored..

im just spending my whole summer here in our house.. 

eat.. sleep.. watch tv.. surf the net.. u know, the usual bored day...

sometimes im at my mom's office.. spending the day in that cold place..

hmm.. ow.. we went on a beach somewhere in quezon province.. im with my parents' officemates and their kids...

that's somewhat relaxing...

what else? ah! my friends and i had a sleepover here in our house..

there were only four of us, but we really had fun...

we played pictionary together with my mom and my brother..

we also went to our other friend's house who lives nearby...

and we chat and chat until the wee hours in d morning..

we had fun..

oh, you can see that my summer is really boring.. whew..

i heard dat my dad is having a seminar at vigan and he is planning to take me with him...

i'm reallly excited.. i hope dat's true..

vigan is my dream place here in the country, of course aside from boracay...

i really hope dat's true..

anyway, im running out of nonsense words to say..

till next time!

it's mah birthday!.. hehe.. lol..

duh, don't have anything to say, sorry.. =) 

thanks for all who greeted me...

and for my friends who didn't greet me?.. You Suck!!!.. lol... juz kiddin..

*much love*

[dotang + pau + rox + darlene + marco] - gem = ='c

it's been a month since i've last saw them..

finding true friends in college is really hard, that is why im very lucky that i met this persons.

if finding friends is hard, losing them is much harder..

i really miss you guys!

i am looking forward to be with you all again..

New environment + New classmates + New professors + New uniform + New policy  = transferee girl!

whew!.. 1st week of class is over.. 

From being a full pledge Thomasian, I am now entering the walls of Letran campus.

At first, I admit that I am scared. Scared for being the outcast in the class. Of course, all of them knew each other since the 1st semester. And here I am, entering their lives without knowing even a single person in the class.

But the vey moment I step inside the classroom, well I can say that they really have a warm welcome. They allow me to join lunch together and talk together. I can see that they want me to feel at ease.

I think, I will soon be at ease in the new life I have. And that's because of my new blockmates. I hope to spend happy moments with them in the next few years of our stay in the university.

And not to mention my boy. I am now very happy and contented that I can spend my everyday life together with him in the new school.

It's maybe sad being out of the walls of UST but one thing is for sure: there's a reason for everything.

And maybe it's destined that I should be with my boy everyday.. lol...

Handsome + royal blood + brave + rich family + every girl’s dream = prince charming

 

Just like every other girls, I grew up loving fairy tales. Who doesn’t want to have Cinderella’s glass shoes, Princess Aurora’s three loving fairy godmothers, Ariel’s good singing voice, Belle’s beauty, Snow White’s seven friendly dwarfs and Rapunzel’s long hair?...

 

Among these beautiful girls, fairy tales will not be complete without prince charming. Prince charming, form the word itself, obviously are princes. But living outside the world of fairy tales, does prince charming really exist?

 

As a simple girl, I believe that each of us has their own prince charming. Some might have found theirs already while some might lost theirs already and some are still waiting for theirs.

 

In fairy tales, prince charming has qualities that they needed to possess. I too had set qualities that I need in a guy. When I enter teenage years falling in love is, I can say, one of the major things that a teen has to undergo. But eventhough I have a set of qualities in a guy, still I ended up in a so-far beyond my requirements. That is why it all ended up in heartbreak.

 

Before, I said to myself why can’t I live the way girls in fairytales do? Why can’t I find the right one for me? Do I need to go in London and look for Prince Williams and ask him to be my prince?

 

After a couple of heartbreaks and rejections, a time came that a certain guy enters my magical world. Actually, he has been my classmate since elementary, he's just a typical friend of mine. The truth is, during that time, I can't seem to imagine myself ending up with him. It's not that I don't like him; but he's just far beyond my requirements. Eventhough I learned to like him, I can't seem to force myself to fall for him -- one of the reason is I'm still dealing with heartbreak. But after a month or two, for some reasons, it seems that I'm ready to enter a relationship with him. When we became a couple, at first I thought this relationship will be the same relationship others have, 'come and go'. But I'm wrong....   

 

A year had passed and we’re still together. We’re not a perfect couple. We encountered huge fights. Cool off. Breakup. But still the feelings that we have seems to grow more and more. We’re truly crazy in love with one another.

 

I know I’m too young to say that he’s the one meant for me but I can say that he’s the one I want to share my life with.

 

Now, I can’t imagine myself ending up with other guy.

 

I can say now that I finally found my prince charming.

 

We still haven’t reach the ending of our story, but I know someday I can finally say to myself, 

“….. and they lived happily ever after”    

 

I’m Gem Ciolo, I came from the province of San Pablo, Laguna but I’m not the typical probinsyana who is not updated with the latest fashion trends or those who are amazed at every little thing that Manila has. I’m still a normal girl who grew up in a city with lesser pollution and traffic compare to Manila. 

Growing up in a province gave me the opportunity to experience fresh air and lesser night life. As a normal girl, I have a lot of dreams in life; one of those is to study in Manila. 

University of Santo Tomas is the only university where I want to study in college. During my senior years in high school, I really prepared before taking the Ustet. When the results had been released, I’m nervous and excited for my results. When I found out that I failed in my first choice – Journalism, I lose hope. But when I learned that I had passed in my second choice – Communication Arts, I was like “oh, thanks God!” I was really happy and proud of myself. 

A month before college started, I was really excited and at the same time scared because I will now become independent. I will be staying at a boarding house together with my fellow freshmen – we all came from our province. 

The first week for me is like a roller coaster, it was the time for adjusting with the new environment. When I got back in our province, I really cried in my mom. But as days passed by, I got used to it. I’m really thankful that I found really true friends in my block mates and room mates. They helped me to adjust with the situation. 

For the past four months of the first semester, I really had a great time and I started to love my new friends. I also work hard in my lessons because I am a scholar of the university because I was a Salutatorian way back in high school.

But for some reason, that experience will going to fade away. My parents told me that I need to transfer for the next semester, in a school near our house in the province so that I will be able to go home everyday to take care of my brother who can’t walk. Another reason is financial problem. 

At first, I thought that this is just a joke. But later on, I realized that this is real, I was really moving out. It is hard for me to accept what is happening since to study in UST is really my dream eversince. 

During my last stay in the university, my friends really made me feel special. It was really hard for me to leave. When the time came that I need to surrender my ID, I was really sad because I’m not a Thomasian anymore. But the bright side of it? I will be with my family again. 

I realized that I’m doing this for my family and this is all God’s plan. Being part of the Thomasian community is really an honor so eventhough I only stayed there for only one semester, I am still very grateful. 

For once, I had proved something in myself, and now I need to prove more. I am now ready to face a new chapter of my life — new environment, new school, new friends, new uniform but still the same me.